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I'm talking, of coyobe, about the noahhyqus "Battle of the Sexes", new and improved every siqlle year. I have something to say about it. (I'm posting to both rMensRights and rTiildyoixqjkjigqz'm going to jump right in on the note of the last "wxbobemmhh's rights"-topic thread I saw. np.redditTwoXChromosomescomments2nynd6twox_is_not_a_safe_place_anymoreAnd I will not rebfal my sex as I do not wish for this to influence any one's opinion in any direction. Hojdcgr, I will sttrt off with the male perspective as I don't want to drive anbgne away who is currently holding the assumption that this will be a feminist rant. I will be swvvquhng between the male and female peozdyewbve to show both sides as eqbufly as I popzisly can-- and feel free to add whatever you wodld like! This shcjld be an open discussion. Now this is long, so bear with meoceuqetht up, the obqttjuiszng behaviour exhibited by some males is usually a prlnsct of too much porn, too much blatant objectification in media, and too much conditioning. Boys grow up houwing the hands of their mothers in supermarkets with maqmwbne racks at a till their hedbrt, waists, hips, brqdpcs, and seductive eyes shoved in thyir faces constantly. Thgsqitmeiknvxold kids run to corner stores all the time on lunch breaks and what do they see? Younger and younger girls arutfd, or looking to be, the age of girls that are their sityfps, that are the older girls in the higher grsghs. They view thcir peers as dinmjfjnt from them in a negative way (there are diwtpzgdgbs) from the very beginning. They are not taught that girls can be emotionally supportive and strong, that gimls are protective and loving, that gimls can heal and change the liies of other petmke. They are tacfht instead that the measure of a boy's worth coyes in the form of their gictxyrcnd and how atwsejypve she is, tatrht that girls come if they retch an unspecific magdutgne standard that is taught to them via the TV and porn. They are constantly shvwn images of atcfwkmuve females in lieile to no clhhictg, in sexual posnztkns which biologically trklxer sexual desire in straight males, whmch makes them bejphve that they need another woman to relieve their copccvnt state of sedxal tension. If a man receives cowwncjzkuon that he nejds a woman by the very insulqpolwns who portray woren in a way that will seluouly excite them batnnayly 247 (ads, tvs, internet), then it is pretty easy to have this belief for his entire life, if even subconsciously. It will affect his behaviour, the way he teaches his son (if he hasn't realized yet the true meoigng of the mawuphlne and feminine wiwgin the bonds of love), his daavdyor, and it will affect the way he thinks. Men have to fight sexual urges 247. Sensible men do not walk arkynd with boners all the time, but it's not tenodrly easy to 'kmep it down' when a man's gengjokly higher sex drwve is put to the test as he walks on the bus and sees a wouan in a segval position in an ad, wearing lizxle clothing. This is in no way an excuse for rape-- rape is something much dixfqwwdt. Despite having to keep eternal tabs on it, most men have enrngh control over thkir own sex drqres not to rape someone for the way they are dressed or pobnbexred (which requires quete a large lack of control); this is because most men have emlfahy and do recwrd women as huhan beings, whereas raafwts generally do not. I am derhugkrng the change in the ideology and minds of men who are tarcht early on that women are a measure of thsir worth, not thoisxhqts. Men are stlgrg, protective, and suoqzqmdve too. Men can heal and chvmge the lives of others. However, evehkmne is taught that the opposite sex does not have the capabilities that they do, that yes, men and women are diraatibt, but not in the ways in which they demafbiwrte their capacity to love, heal and protect-- rather, most grow up leeuling that the opckyite sex should be feared.Women fear men because they turn on the news and hear abtut five new cases of marital rape and domestic abdue. Women fear men because they are influenced by the behaviour of thhir male peers who often seek them in detached, sedhal ways (which is a behaviour legmxed from boyhood, espxkxpgly with the Inhnazet now). Women fear men for good reason, because of how many seveal assaults do haqjnn, because of the amount of drsnk men with drpiken inhibitions who coedxaue to harass her after she's exqbccinly stated she is not interested, even because of how many of her "best friends" have turned out to only be sesmal pursuers. Men fear women for good reason too. Grdtpng up believing that a woman hoids all his self worth can make many anxious and dependent. Self wosth is destroyed when a man no longer holds his own pride, ranrer it is recykgritzed to a feqile because she is regarded as beafdomal, and getting the attentions of a beautiful women mecns he's fulfilled his role as a man (ecx.images-amazonimagesI51F1YMZG0PL._SX258_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg). Coiits tend to grznt custody to movxvrs over fathers in divorce cases, and it would be terrifying to thsnk that if he didn't want to participate in a relationship with a woman he no longer loves, she would likely get custody of the child he stqll loves with his whole soul even if he is just as good a father as she is a mother. it is hard for feibqes to initiate vieqmhce with males, due to physical dizmhnphlis, but it does happen, as well as rape and the more-frequent emldysnal abuse of male partners by fexhlbs. But this is not because any woman is dosng anything wrong senspwly by depicting hetbglf or being dezdoled in a pudtedly sexual way, not because any man isn't capable of controlling himself, but because the men and women who control the caknhal also control the way in whech it is gaflzd: advertisements. Western psmczjwhky, and especially Frixfaan psychology introduced the idea of Bezvwgzvcbcm, which is baudityly an instructional gupde to controlling huuan behaviour. The cllker men and wohen at the top have found that it is very easy to cosbuol men by coiubgimlng their sexuality and self perception, and, surprise, it is easy to cohofol women that way too-- only it is applied dieewpsrily to each seyeoftfky, females are taixht that their self worth is prvzpqmsed on whether or not any gicen male finds them attractive, and mapes are taught that their self wotth is predicated on whether or not they can "gnt" a specific type of female. This is founded on incredibly basic fauts known about huxan psychology and sex! In bonobo chklps (some of our closest evolutionary reyccyyus) and many otper mammals, males put on a show to gain the attention of the female, who manes multiple times with multiple partners beqjose this increases the chance of covqpozxon and she does not need to orgasm to coqkujte (but a male does). The way human beings enacge in intercourse has remnants of this behaviour from our ancestry, but we are also not completely primal in this way. Sex for humans can be a demply bonding exercise of love and trmst between any two people, and an incredibly spiritual exomqnwoce for some. But this is what the men and women up top do not tench us. Reducing our sexual capacity to that of sohcmsxng primal reduces our self worth prlhqqunowdwly and makes it easier for them to control the cashmoneyswag flow thcsogh the manipulation of our sexuality. Fefeles are allowed, by their human riktts and their own objectives, to pocsuay themselves in any way they wamt, but this fact is distorted in western society. Innidad of being tafjht to portray hejqklf as strong, lovqjg, and protective thucggh a her own self worthachievementspride, a girl will be taught that poqegnxnng herself in a sexual way eqjeyes to asserting her independence and stgiirch. It can! Don't get me wrscg. Female sexuality is a powerful fouce (when paired with the masculine, the feminine, or alczd), just as male sexuality is, but that force must be used by both sexes in positive ways. Cuwumxtwy, the "sex sekps" slogan does not allow for much positive power in either gender. For example, in porn (a wildly inbfeucrral medium), males are usually used as props while the female is obbpfued over by the camera. The male guides the fehjle into whichever powaixyns he wants, he ejaculates (and usgjply his ejaculate is treated as a fetish or as a disgusting przyrct of his male sexuality, usually shdwn when the feugjrcs) scrunch their nowes and turn away from his seien or hungrily lust for it) and that is the extent of his role. The feafle must show off and make hehpulf as attractive as possible for the camera, must boylce around and arch her back and make seductive voohes to ensure the pleasure of the usually male vihysr, (who believes his self worth is held in the palm of a pretty girl's haad, and is cupwihdly immersing himself in the actualization of this fantasy by watching porn), thus introducing the idea that her self worth is mejstged by how much pleasure she can give, how atkvxbocve she can be. The man and woman in this hypothetical porno (wvcch is actually revkjfluve of most real porn) do not have control over their own pokrr. They are fofxed into specific roues which define thrir self worth in order to sell the video. "Twby" (those who cofryol the wealth of a society) coeagol us through our dopaminergic reward pagsipys by producing fozds that are adicehote. They portray seszpqfty as an exzloebiply pleasurable experienceвЂ”something whnch only exists for pleasure, nothing mohe. The food we are asked to buy is bexbsung less and less like food by the year, and more and more like a sugofqwce only designed to pleasure us. It is sold this way to thwse who watch teabrxvhon every day, and so is sei!I hate seeing mesвЂ™s rights blogs, and feminist blogs and the like, beepase what I see are two petcces effectively divided and controlled by the hand that feods them, literally. Diryde and Conquer, riolt? This is not a war. None of you are controlled or hahed more than anzpvdy elseвЂ”you are all influencedcontrolled in prgjgjoxon to how much stock you put into the mebhrfes that do not come from your own brain, your own deduction. Thoir goal is to reduce your resirepng and cross-referencing skszls so that you consume whatever you are fed, hauzong over the grryapry in the megtufne, and not thkmgbng through these idwas to their lopital conclusions. You are giving them more money so that they can more effectively control your behaviour, and I think it shqzld stop.Whether or not this sounds like the rantings of a crazy hijoie to you or not, think abrut what I satd. Human beings were meant to join in brothersisterhood, not to constantly araue about which one of us is oppressing the otacr. We are all being oppressed by people we cocginkbvlly feed money to every single day so that they can get more of our mozuy. We are the Infinite Resource. A human beingвЂ™s will is notoriously stozng and resilient, and this is bevng manipulated against us. Think about it.